Thursday, December 28, 2017

Samay Wo Bhi Tha Samay Aaj Bhi Hai....

Samay wo bhi tha Samay aaj bhi hai....

Jeevan ke panne palat raha hoon aur har raat kal ke panne mein kuch achhca likhne ko hoga soch ke so jaata hoon...

Jeevan ke bahut se panne khaali chale gaye shayad wahan kuch aise lamhe the ya kahiye kuch aise kisse the jo likhe na gaye....

Arre janab kuch aisa waisa na tha.. .haan par jo tha thoda ajeeb tha shayad zindagi mod le rahi thi...

Benares se Mumbai ka safar...Mumbai se Delhi..Delhi se Benares aur Benares se Bangalore ya kahiye 12th se B.com-C.A.-Plays/theatre/Movie-Ias ki tayyari-acchi private naukri ki khoj- private naukri aur phir khud ka business-- Entrepreneur!!

Ye jo do tarfa trikon sa safar zindagi ne dikhaya hai ye koi aam panne nahi the aaj inhi panno ki wajah se maine bahut kuch seekha ya mehsoos kiya hai ya huzoor kahiye ki Jeevan ke har tarah ke kisse the iss ab tak ki zindagi ke kahani mein...Aur haan kahani khatam nhi hui....abhi to kahani baaki hai janaab...kyunki asal kisse to zindagi ne ab likhne shuru kiye hain....


Har subah ek kissa apni naye kirdaaro aur kuch peechle kirdaaron ke saath khada rehta ki meri aankhein khulengi aur zindagi ke iss rangmanch pe kirdaaron ka khela shuru ho jaayega...

Khair ye to meri kahani thi par ek baat kahunga inmein se kuch kisse sirf mere kisse nahi agar jeevan jeeya hai aapne to aap bhi kahin na kahin apne jeevan ke taar jod sakte....

Ye zindagi hai hi aisi sab ek gutthi hai suljhao aur jeetey jao...

Aur bas...
Kisse bante gaye main likhta gaya aur aaj ka bhi ek bhi panna   khatam hone wala hai aur main sab apne dil mein..dimaag mein likh ke/basa ke sone ko agrasar hoon....


Kal uss sunhare panne ke intezaar mein ki ek din main wo panna likhunga jo mere jeevan ka maksad hai...par haan ho sakta hai uss din bhi shayad wo panna khaali reh jayega....par jaisa bhi hogaa bahut khoobsurat hoga...

Jeevan hai sahab jeetna jeeyenge utne rang saamne aayenge aur asli jeevan jeene ka yahi to mazaa hai.....

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Bambai ki Raftaar Se Seekhti Zindagi

Mumbai ya kuch ke liye aaj bhi wahi Bambai....Ye wo seher jahan suraj dhalte hi ugne (nikalne) ki soch mein doob jaata aur roz shaam se hi savere ki tayyari  har kaam se lautne wale auto, car, bike, bus, local train se hi shuru ho jaati...Haath mein smart phone aur ghar par iss tez raftaar se daudti zindagi mein ek ghar jo ghar sa nhi  balki bas rehne ki ek jagah hai Aur kuch aise jo ghar banana chahte hain wo to jhopde ko bhi ashiyane ka darza dete hain....
Wo bheedh mein daudti zindagi ka safar....Traffic mein gf ya biwi ka ek muskaan ke saath kandhe pe haath rakh wo saath hone ke bharose ka ehsaas..Ek sukoon sa milta...Kyunki Mumbai Ka traffic ek jeevan ke safar se kam nhi jo har signal sa theraav deta par thamta nhi...Wo aagey jaane ki chah sabmein rehti...Traffic mein insaan chalta Dheere hai par chalta hai... bambai ki seekh se hi seekhte-seekhate chalta yahan pe sabka jeevan...

Ye kahani har uss tez raftaar wale seher ki khaani jahan log seher ki raftaar pakadne mein zindagi se door hote ja rahe.....

Friday, December 16, 2016

StartUp Life..

StartUp Life.. Full of Fun,Entertainment & Challenges For Entrepreneurs.
Today, in StartUp era initiating a Startup is not a big deal for the viewers it's just a game of few words but for an Entrepreneurs it is life & better half for his/her whole life.It's not confirmed that every Startup makes life but which survives it creates a history.Trust on himself/herself & confidence on own ideas can be the two strong points to make Startup Survive. 'Failures are good for longevity' . Use failures as feedback and improving on same will lead better way to success . No entrepreneur is completely learnt, everyday there is something new to learn in life of an entrepreneur, a true challenge to prove your worth.
Wish LUCK to all Entrepreneurs.

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

What's Life!!!!!

                                     What's Life!!!! 

Hey friends, once again am back with my new blog and wid a very indifferent topic..i.e "What's life" everyone's mind does reply on this if ever asked....As today in fast moving or pacy lifestyle..nobody has time to peep into the matters which doesn't make any difference to them....Hope you all like my blog and I would request all who goes through please put up a comment afterwards...
So,without wasting much of your precious time, I'll be back to my basic issue that's 'What's Life'.. Ask yourself and see what reply your inner soul reverts to you...Actually life has different meanings and values...It differs from person to person and varies in their views...According  to our basic ideology or The best Google Babaji dictionary wordings 'Life is a characteristic distinguishing objects having signaling and self sustaining process.....so on....and the study of life is 'Biology'..ohh!!
     That was seriously heavy one but trust me am not here to discuss such heavy philosophies of life...Am here jes to satisfy my itch of finding out What's Life in my point of view through your help or common people views.....Am here to discuss What's Life is actually and how to take it..Today, after so much of hardwork and struggle if we achieve success then even 99% of us die unsatisfied....
As "kehte hain na kitna bhi kar lo kuch kam pad hi jaata hai" and that's the truth...And in this race of chasing big dreams and success we forget to live up small happiness that occurred in our daily life..And for this issue I took help from few of my good friends and I asked them about 'What's life'..trust me I was amazed by the replies I received..Here are some of the views which I would like  to share with all..As one said 'Life is a chance to make friends,fall for someone & do something worthwhile',other one which is suppose was commonest was 'Love is Life' ,next said 'Life is a maze with every choice of making or breaking your time to destination',Life cannot be defined,life is unpredictable,life is a journey and many more but one which was lil different was 'At the end of the day when I have smile on my face and my heart says what a day....that's Life'...From this you can make an idea that's what's life for you..
Seriously before proceeding further firstly I would thank to all friends who replied and am thankful to those even who didn't as I know time is precious and they would have been busy..
These views proved that everyone has different perception towards life..But for me still I was unsatisfied wid the views...Why even I don't know..I wanna satisfy myself...So I went to different segments or class of people and asked the same and I stored some more different views in my bag and these wer like for Rickshaw puller 'Life is Money'..For beggar 'Life is Single Coin provided by you at any signal or place'..For poor 'Life is two-time meal and shelter'..I was annoyed that what the condition is...as How life can be rude to someone to such extent but still they have smile on face at times they know how to take it.....
Was I satisfied now as I this asked to myself and still a call was No..What I was searching for...even I didn't knew...then after few days when I dropped the plan to put up this topic...Unfortunately I was having tea @ tea stall on road and I met a boy working at tea stall he must have been around 12-13 years of age..I asked the same question to him...dont know from where it came into mind and I asked him..He didn't understood my question..then I made him understand..What's life for him..Then he pointed out towards a boy playing with his parents and was really happy...then I asked 'tumhare maa papa nahi hai? And I found out that this boy was orphan and use to work there for food and shelter without getting paid...I wasnt shocked but yes I was surprised over his reply..As I would be sounding lil filmy or something but literally that was the answer I was searching for....Yes then I realised What's Life? And the answer is Parents are life.....They are the one from where we got our life and today when we are  asked about what's life we don't relate to them other then relating to Friends,Love,Journey and many other things views....Why we forget them as they are the one from where we started our journey...Among all few will be there who would have replied this....Parents are the best thing on this earth as from them we receive love and learn to love....from them and only we started all....But today when we are grown up why we take them so casually....Dont we have any responsibilities towards them...We have became dependent or have settled  down or we are far from them that doesn't mean that we don't need them anymore but yes as now they need us.....Calling in a day or two,is not enough...give a thought over this 'Ki agar wo na hote to kya hota?'..I know some wud be like where I'm leading this topic to....But literally trust me give a thought and u'll understand what am upto...Parents happiness...family happiness and many such small happiness can make our life beautiful and this is what actual life is....Running behind dreams and achieving success can provide you much happiness but don't miss small small happiness of life on the way leading to your dreams....As every coin has two sides and so the life has as a  good phase and bad phase and as we all know after every night there is a day..So don't spoil your Present by thinking over past or worrying about future...Make Your Present Best that will lead to pleasant life and a better tomorrow..

Saturday, December 18, 2010

honour killing....

An honour killing..this is the incidence you must have heard if you listen news or from any source of getting news You must be knowing that what is it and if not I’ll try to make you all much clear from my point of view..and if someone of you want to convey his/her point of view then he/she is welcome..So without being diverted from the topic let me come back to my topic…
An honor killing or honour killing (also called a customary killing) is the murder of a member of a family or social group by other members, due to the belief of the perpetrators (and potentially the wider community) that the victim has brought upon the family or community.
Recentle many cases have been arised relating to this issue i.e. honour killing..few days ago everyday one new case was being telecaste on news channel and there are many big issues occurred which created anxiety in people belonging to the region where such issues are happening daily..Honour killings have been reported in northern regions of India, mainly in the Indian states of , Rajasthan, Haryana and Bihar, as a result of people marrying without their family's acceptance, and sometimes for marrying outside their caste or religion.As the main shameful thing is such kind of crimes are being done by the people who were the superiors among all the caste..As among Rajputs, marriages with members of other castes can provoke the killing of the married couple and immediate family members. This form of honour killing is attributed to Rajput culture and traditional views on the perceived "purity" of a lineage.
If we talk about this issue after relating todata then the Indian state of Punjab also is notorious for honour killings. According to data compiled by the Punjab Police, 34 honour killings were reported in the state between 2008 and 2010: 10 in 2008, 20 in 2009, and four in 2010 .As this record is as per the police record but I don’t think that each and every case is filed in police register or police come to know about every case..
Haryana also is known for incidents of honour killing in the northern Indian state of Bihar has also been notorious for honour killings. Recent cases include a 16-year-old girl, Imrana, from Bhojpur who was set on fire inside her house in a case of what the police called ‘moral vigilantism’. The victim had screamed for help for about 20 minutes before neighbours arrived, only to find her still smoldering. She was admitted to a local hospital, where she later died from her injuries. In May 2008, Jayvirsingh Bhadodiya shot his daughter Vandana Bhadodiya and struck her on the head with an axe.In June 2010 some incidents were reported even from Delhi.
In a landmark judgment in March 2010, Karnal district court ordered the execution of the five perpetrators of an honour killing and imprisoning for life the khap (local caste-based council) head who ordered the killings of Manoj Banwala (23) and Babli (19), a man and woman of the same clan who eloped and married in June 2007. Despite having been given police protection on court orders, they were kidnapped; their mutilated bodies were found a week later in an irrigation canal.
Now before I tellyou some more cases let me tell youwhat is this ‘khap panchayat’.. Khap panchayat governs the khap formed by same gotra (clan) families from several neighbouring villages.Khap panchayats are prevalent in Haryana, western Uttar Pradesh and Parts of Rajasthan. Love marriages are considered taboo in areas governed by Khap panchayats.Those living in a Khap are not allowed to marry in the same gotra or even in any gotra from the same village. Many young couples have been killed in the past defying khap rules.
Khap panchayat imposes its writ through social boycotts and fines and in most cases end up either killing or forcing the victims to commit suicide. All this is done in the name of brotherhood and its honour. It is due to the inherent weakness of democratically elected Panchayati Raj institutions, Khap panchayats have been powerful. Even the government has not done much to control their power.
The 10-15 men who constitute a Khap settle disputes and control the lives of young people. Many village people also defend these caste panchayats as they deliver the verdict in one sitting whereas court cases drag for years. According to them, in many cases innocent people get harassed in the court and by police. Here as everyone is known so they cross check everything to ensure neutrality. In some Haryana villages, the young girls are routinely threatened, abused and killed all under Khap verdicts. It is acceptable for the families to feed pesticide pills to the teenage girls and then dispose off their bodies by burning them without any police records. The entire onus of siblinghood rests on the girl. She is the keeper of village honor. Sometimes rules are bending for the boys but a girl is never allowed to bend the rules. If a couple run away then the families risk the boycott and hefty fines in lakhs of rupees. Even the other women of the house can suffer abuse.
In keeping with the khap rules, older villages try to keep the young people apart. Some schools are also forced to have separate timings for the boys and girls. Fearing their daughters would go astray, many parents marry them off at an early age. People have unquestionable faith in the justice of khap.The question of rights for women does not exist any where in the territories ruled by Khap panchayats.
Now my question to all is where the judiciary power i/.e.,wether Supreme Court or high court takes so many years to give verdict how can a group of people give a verdict in jes one gathering. This not all, there are many more cases like these which are mentioned above. Even one of the politician family was arrested in relation to this matter for e.g.Nitish Katara was 24 year old Indian business executive in Delhi, who was murdered in the early hours of February 17, 2002, by Vikas Yadav the son of influential criminal-politician D. P. Yadav. Nitish had recently graduated from the Institute of Management Technology, Ghaziabad, where, he had fallen in love with his classmate, Bharti Yadav, sister of Vikas. The trial court held that Nitish's murder was an honour killing because the family did not approve their relationship. Vikas and Vishal Yadav were later found guilty by the trial Court and awarded life sentence on 30 May 2008.
In contrast, honour killings are rare to non-existent in SouthIndia and the western. Indian states of Maharashtra and Gujarat. There have been no honor killings in West Bengal in over 100 years, largely due to the activism and influence of reformists such as Vivekananda, Ramakrishna, Vidyasagar and Raja Ram Mohan Roy.
If one state can show such a good stats regarding this issue than why not the other states..why is there need of honour killing..we always talk about devolping India..and after that such kind of acts what does this prove..are we developing..is our mentality growing up…I think no one can answer..as until and unless we don’t grow our mentality higher,we don’t stop discrimination part from our mind till then we cant be developed or be in process of developing..
In 1990 the National Commission for Women set up a statutory body in order to address the issues of honor killings among some ethnic groups in North India. This body reviewed constitutional, legal and other provisions as well as challenges women face. The NCW's activism has contributed significantly towards the reduction of honor killings in rural areas of North India.According to Pakistani activists Hina Jilani and Eman M. Ahmed, Indian women are considerably better protected against honor killings by Indian law and government than Pakistani women, and they have suggested that governments of countries affected by honor killings use Indian law as a model in order to prevent honor killings in their respective societies.
In June 2010, scrutinizing the increasing number of honour killings, the Supreme Court of India issued notices to the Central Government and six states including Uttar Pradesh, Punjab, Haryana and Rajasthan to take preventive measures against the social evil.
Alarmed by the rise of honour killings, the Government planned to bring a bill in the Monsoon Session of Parliament July 2010 to provide for deterrent punishment for 'honour' killings ..
Government is taking measures but nothing can be done unti and unless we don’t take steps in getting free from this problem as if it will be continued like this it will be creating a major problem for all..so every indian has to consider this problem seriously otherwise it would be too late
“Jaago India Jaago..Warna Bahut Der Ho Jayegi”..

Monday, December 13, 2010

"COMMON MAN"...

“Common Man” now in our local language we all know ‘aam aadmi’’, ‘aam nagrik’, etc, .These are the words which represent approx every citizen of India. Before coming directly on my mentioned issue let me give little brief about our nation. India has a population of 1.17 billion people, comprising of 1/6th of the world population. India’s population rose by 21.34% between 1991-2001. The sex ratio (number of females per thousand males) of population is 933 rising from 927as at1991. Total literacy rate in India returned as 65.38%.

Population of India, 1961-2003
Population: 1,173,108,000 (2010 est.)
Growth rate: 1.548% (2009 est.)
Birth rate: 22.22 births/1,000 population (2009 est.)
Death rate: 6.4 deaths/1,000 population (2009 est.)
Life expectancy: 69.89 years (2009 est.)
–male: 67.46 years (2009 est.)
–female: 72.61 years (2009 est.)
Fertility rate: 2.72 children born/woman (NFHS-3, 2008)
Infant mortality rate: 30.15 deaths/1,000 live births (2009 est.)
Age structure:
0-14 years: 31.1% (male 190,075,426/female 172,799,553) (2009 est.)
15-64 years: 63.6% (male 381,446,079/female 359,802,209) (2009 est.)
65-over: 5.3% (male 29,364,920/female 32,591,030) (2009 est.)
Sex ratio:
At birth: 1.12 male(s)/female (2009)
Under 15: 1.10 male(s)/female (2009)
15-64 years: 1.06 male(s)/female (2009)
65-over: 0.90 male(s)/female (2009)

India containing 17.31% of the world's population, India is projected to be the world's most populos country by 2025, surpassing China, its population exceeding 1.6 billion people by 20u50,(graph above).However, India has an astonishing demographic dividend where more than 50% of its population is below the age of 25 and more than 65% hovers below the age of 35. It is expected that, in 2020, the average age of an Indian will be 29 years, compared to 37 for China and 48 for Japan; and, by 2030, India's dependency ratio should be just over 0.4. India has more than two thousand ethnic groups, and every major religion is represented, as are four major families of languages (Indo-European, Dravidian, Austro-Asiatic and Tibeto-Burman languages) as well as a language isolate (the Nihali language espoken in parts of Maharashtra).About 70% of the people live in more than 5,50,000 villages and the remainder in more than 200 towns and cities.The government has recognised 18 languages as official; hindi is widely spoken. Although 83% of population are Hind,India also comprises of more than 120 million muslims,one of the world’s largest muslim populations.The population also includes Christians,Jains,Sikhs,Buddhists,and Parsis.
So,this was the little brief about our nation and I hope many of u going through this page know all these things.
Now without being diverted much I should come back upon my issue i.e., ‘Common Man’.. I think every one has gone through this particular word..Basically this word is TAG upon the people of middle class or lower class people..now what are these middle and lower class people..Actually on the basis of the Indian economy or Standard of living of the people the class has been divided,such as..upper class,upper middle class,middle middle class,lower middle class and last not the least lower class..this is nothing but acoording to this class discrimination one could judge the standard of living of the person.Now for some more understanding look upon this..
India's population can be divided into 5 groups on the basis of annual household income. These groups are:
1. Higher income
2. Upper middle income
3. Middle middle income
4. Lower middle income
5. Lower income
According to National Council of Applied Economic Research (NCAER) there are 5 consumer classes that differ in their ownership patterns and consumption behavior across various segments of goods.
Consumer Classes Annual Income in Rs. 1996 2001 2007 Change
The Rich Rs. 215,000 and more 1.2 2.0 6.2 416%
The Consuming Class Rs 45- 215,000 32.5 54.6 90.9 179%
The Climbers Rs. 22-45,000 54.1 71.6 74.1 37%
The Aspirants Rs. 16-22,000 44 28.1 15.3 -65%
The Destitute Below Rs. 16,000 33 23.4 12.8 -61%
Total 164.8 180.7 199.2 21%

Source: NCAER

the 5 classes of consumer households (consumer classification) show the economic development across the country based on consumption trends.

Now on the basis of above details one could very well that on what ground does this class is made. As our nation is developing day by day and that even rapidly but as far as the citizens are concerned the discrimination is made on several grounds. Still the mentality is not grown. Still the biased feeling is present. The word common man is very simple but our nation is formed because of this common man. And we are also somewhere part and parcel of this common mass. And when we talk about this common mass it’s termed as common people and not common man. As our present government or the previous governments all raise every single agenda behind which the common man is present. Many promises are made to these common people that many development would be made in favor of the AAM JANTA or the AAM NAGRIK.But can any of you tell me that how much progress have been made in a life of a common man regarding the budget passed in previous year or this year. It’s just the promises made and not the development. Practically just 20-25% of promises made seems to be fulfilled rest are kept for the next election agenda..INFALTION rate is going higher day by day but no remedies have been planned yet. The present government is just telling to slow down the increasing rate of inflation in their statements made and not practically. The basic reason behind the standard of living of people is diminishing is just due to this inflation rate.
We always talk about the issues like poverty, illiteracy; unemployment…the mass that is suffering from these problems is the common man. the man who belongs either lower class or lower middle class….the main reason behind is economic policies which is implemented…Am not denying that government is not preparing for remedies but the thing till when some steps is taken in this regard its too late and several other problems arise due to a particular problem. The proper working and implementation is lacking in our system. Rich is becoming richer and poor are getting poorer. In India less than 2% of the earning population pay taxes … while this can be largely attributed to financial constraints, it is also true that many people hide or mask their actual incomes to escape tax. Hence, in a typical market research scenario, very few people actually reveal their true income
Difficulty in tracking over a period of time …
Due to inflation and other issues, the value of a particular salary band keeps on changing. And by such doings no one is suffered. its the common man. And i.e., somewhere we are only going to suffer. Every where we need proper arrangements. Whereas if we talk about our daily life, or any such issue we need our think to be done easily and properly. No one wants to live uneasy life but please think about the once who lives problematic lives...Investments are being made, policies and programme are being framed. But then to we are not able to cure the problems? We are not able to find the exact solution through which we should gain the maximum result.
For whom such investments are made if the citizens only are not benefited completely. Even after the developments made the citizens are facing problems then definitely some issue is there or the development made was not planned or was not in the favor of the common man…COMMON MAN plays vital role in every functioning of the governing bodies or any policies or programmes being framed. I rose up the particular issue only to acknowledge about the conditions of living of the common man. Life of common man and why we common man we can say our life is becoming miserable day by day. Life is full of struggle and adjustments. It’s the common man who has to adjust in every condition and situations...poor are being more suffered but more or less we are also suffering. There is a big difference between the elite class people and the common man or the common “in mass” just the thing I want to say “JAAGO INDIA JAAGO.AGAR AB NAHI JAAGEY TO SMAYA NIKAL JAYEGA”...if we don’t take action we only going to suffer. So as to get rid of this problems and sufferings we have to take up effective measures...

ATLAST BUT NOT THE LEAST I WOULD REQUEST YOU ALL TO PLEASE POST COM MENTS AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW YOUR VIEWS REGARDING MY THIS ISSUE..